WHY PARENTS AND TEENS MISUNDERSTOOD THE WORLD "RELATIONSHIP"
What is a relationship? It is the way in which two or more persons are connected. A relationship is not just a connection between two parties. The youths of our country see relationship as the easiest way for fun. They call such binding "DATE" which on my own understanding is abbreviated to be " disgrace after tasting the enticing part of the tongue".
Now, the word "LOVE"has being misquoted by our youths in the modern generation. They see it as the opportunity of taking advantage on their opposite sex. It is highly astonishing that the very part of relationship that was matured is now seen as something for caricature."Dating you need license" if you're never ready for marriage then don't think of dating. Instead of dating, you go for swimming lessons where you can have more of fun,instead of using another persons heart for fun.
Having sex is now a major problem amongst the youth. If you're dating and you ain't having sex as a major duty then you're stated a fool by your colleagues. Now girls because of this give their selves as a free will donation for sex because they're scared of loosing the so called mosquito they call a date.
BESTIE is another opportunity where most immature mind use as also another method of taking advantage of unreasonable girls.
All this are caused by less attention of parents to children.
A bestie is just appearing to be like a brother or sister to you after your biological siblings, while a date appears to be like a prepared suitor awaiting for the rightful time to get married to you.
Now bestie according to my own IQ is the deep connection of shared relatively love from amongst your siblings and friend who can intensively become part of the family. The mindset of people have being erected with negative pictures, whereby using the world "Bestie" as a fast weapon. In one of my write-ups I clearly state that the actions of every thought is in the imagination of the mind.
PARENT CURRENT RELATIONAL STATUS TO THEIR CHILDREN.
If the mindset were to be a dynamite then the world will be an inspirational novel for the new generation.
We humans understand and get framed about the mindsets in different ways. Its either negative or positive.
When you look at the relationship status of parents to their offsprings it is mostly framed negative.
In the African part of the continent especially Nigeria as a country,parents are being over protective and it spoils the kids easily and unknown to the them, and this scares away freedom and closeness from the children to the parents.
For instance take a look at a girl with an unwanted pregnancy which can be caused by lack of attention, care and love and also advice by the parents to the child.
Most girls flirt around for money to take good care of their self, while some for foolish love which will merit nothing.
90% of parents prefer scolding, than scolding,discipline and advising the kids over their wrongs and this leads to the increase of corruption in the country.
We have our civic rights as a citizen in our families and country but that of the family have been denied off the children especially freedom of expression.
Most God fearing kids have the zeal on pursuing a common goal with what they have but can't because of the over strictness of most parents.
Joyce Meyer an inspirational writer would say"Get out of neutral and put in a drive" Whenever a man faces lots of challenges it gives him the courage to sit up because he'll make an indelible mark on the world he lives.
Our parents can be an obstacle but not forever, using the little chance we have to manifest our talents helps in the remembrance of a future leader. Success cannot make manifest with a failure image.
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